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The Highs and Lows of 2014


Almost everyday, I try to think of the highs and lows of that day. Sometimes I’ll think about my highs and lows to myself, and other times I’ll share these moments with my sister, mom, and even my friends. This habit made me appreciate the little things, and makes me realize that even on the worst days, if you look carefully, there is still something to be grateful for. While thinking of 2014, I tried to pick one high and one low. My high was definitely the travels that I did. Here are my highs and lows of 2014.

Highs: I got to travel a lot and made so many great memories that I’ll forever cherish in my heart and I’m glad I also have photos to look back on to relive these memories!

Knysna, South Africa.
song_of_style_white_bow_bikinisong_of_style_cape_town_white_dressaimee_song_penguins_south_africaOne of my favorite places I traveled to was Kynsna in South Africa from earlier this year. Dani and I went to the game reserve, spent a day at a castle where Nelson Mandela once stayed, I bungee jumped which was scary but one of the most liberating experiences ever and closest I’ll get to flying, and even went shark cage diving. In Cape Town, we hung out with Penguins and tried to paraglide (Dani was willing to do it even though she was scared of heights!) but couldn’t because it was too foggy. My sister and I were always pretty close but we bonded even more from this trip and this trip made me appreciate nature so much. Dani and I couldn’t wait to go back to South Africa so we did go back several months ago for Sunglass Hut!

Cabo, Mexico. song_of_style_finders_keepers_schutz song_of_style_white_denim_overalls_mirrored_sunglass song_of_style_cabo_boat_ride song_of_style_beach_riot_cabo2I went to Cabo for the first time and had so much fun with the Rewardstyle team and fellow bloggers. I made really great friends with the girls on the trip and their significant others, ate tons and tons of Mexican food (which is my favorite food!) and I got to be with Wesley Mason. There were so many funny incidents that happened here especially with the boys being boys and one of the funniest inside jokes ever, involving dipping everything with ranch!

Essaouira and Marrakech in Morocco.song_of_style_morocco_essaouira_2 song_of_style_marrakechI’ve been to Morocco before and loved it the first time I went with my sister but this time, I got to go with my best friend Jennia and it was a different experience. I met so many great people on this trip that I am constantly in touch with and I also experienced a different side of Morocco.

Vulcano, Sicily
song_of_style_yellow_bikini_dolce_and_gabbana song_of_style_braid_zimmermann_flower_romper song-of-style-marysia-swim-scallop-bikiniAnother trip that my sister Dani and I got to go on together. I really have the best time when she’s traveling with me. We actually fought so much during our trip in Sicily but also made so many sweet memories. My sister isn’t really the active type but we biked around Vulcano, tried to speak Italian, took some mud baths and stank for couple of weeks.

Ibiza, Spain
song-of-style-formentera-ibiza-bike-ride Processed with VSCOcam with f2 preset song_of_style_striped_shirt_denim_shorts_ibiza_3After Sicily, Dani and I headed to Ibiza and I also invited my friend Ays. This was so much fun because we all partied hard at night then slept during the day on the beach and really lived the Ibiza lifestyle minus the drugs. You can see my Ibiza Guide here.

South of France.
song-of-style-antibes-zimmermann-playsuitAfter Ibiza, I headed to South of France. I first went to San Remo in Italy then Nice, Monaco and Antibes. Antibes was actually my favorite because it was more like a quaint village and I made so many beautiful memories during this trip.

Lows: I lost my second mom to brain cancer.
MammaTIt was a long battle but I don’t think anyone can ever be prepared to lose someone. I still think about her constantly and the memories I have of her are thankfully so vivid. What I’m most grateful for is that we traveled together at least once a year and built so many good memories from that and my favorites being from the times we spent in Cozumel, Mexico and Aruba. This photo above is from Cozumel, Mexico, my first trip with her. When she was battling cancer, and the most important thing for us was to make good memories so we still went to Aruba. Ask any person who’s dealt with cancer in their family, it’s really hard both mentally and financially. Wesley Mason and I were constantly traveling to see her, and family members had to accompany her so that she could go get radiation and chemo which was several hours away from where she lived. During this whole process Wesley Mason and his uncle Lowell realized that even the average family could not really afford all the treatment nor the financial burden that it comes with so they started a foundation called Thompson-Mason Brain Cancer Foundation in hopes to help people who are in similar situation. Whether they need help paying their rent because they cannot work due to cancer, or even helping them change tires on their car so that they can travel to get cancer treatments. The foundation also helps people go on trips so that they can make final memories with their loved ones. Even though losing Momma T was so tragic, I’m happy that they were able to create something so great to honor her.

What were some of your highs and lows of 2014?


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  2. Thank you for sharing both highs and lows Aimee. Sometimes other peoples lives look so perfect from the outside, but when you step inside you see that everyone has struggles and it makes them seem more human. So thank you for letting see that with you. Happy New Year and may it be full of many more memories.

    Laura Lily

    Latest Post: New Year’s Eve in Milly

  3. Although you lost someone really important to you.. I like how you think also on the positive.. Keep up and have a nice and wonderful year full of success! Sincerely, Mai.

  4. I’m so envious of all your travels this year! I’m so sorry to hear about Momma T as well, but your tribute to her is amazing. Thank you letting your readers in allowing us to get to know you on a personal level. Wishing you the absolute best this 2015 <3

    xoxo Eda

  5. Prudence Yeo says on December 30, 2014

    Awesome images and it’s wonderful that you get to travel around and see the world! Sorry for the loss of a loved one and it is great to know that a brain cancer foundation is formed to help those in need, such a meaningful cause! Personally, my high will be finally having the courage to start my own blog and my low will be related to some of the setbacks experienced in regard to my fashion business.


  6. Hi Aimee,

    Love this post !

    Sharing my Highs and lows of 2014:

    Lots of highs things : many experiences about blog : fashion shows , people I ‘ve met ( bloggers , photographers etc ) , the birth of my second nephew , new friendships , a lot of surprises … All little things make me happy !

    The low of 2014 was the loss of a close person .

    Wishing you a happy new year lovely ! 2015 est à nous

  7. fabienne says on December 30, 2014

    My downs:
    I lost my mother, father and my grandparents all on cancer and i miss them every day!

    My ups:
    Im healthy, have enough food, a good job and a roof over my head
    My great friends
    My boyfriend
    I am able to travel the world
    …and I spoiled myself with my first chanel bag at my 26th birthday

    Happy New Year :-*

    Hug from Switzerland

  8. This is such a simple yet good idea! There is nothing like looking back and realising how many great memories you created throughout the year.

    My high would be meeting a bunch of new friends which I will always cherish and my low would be not taking enough time off to spend time with old friends.

    Happy New Year!! x

  9. I’m so sorry to hear for your loss Dani. I’m also glad that you balance the highs out with the lows and keep a human persona in world of bloggers whose lives seem like a movie. Your travel photos are stunning and I love how you give readers a look into your personal life. Hope you have a wonderful and relaxing new years xx

    Pretty in Python

  10. One of your most beautiful and personal posts, Aimee! I love the concept of debriefing at the end of each day about the high’s and low’s. Definitely something that I want to try, as you said, it makes you realize even the worst day has a positive! I love your year’s round-up of your high and low. As someone who went through cancer treatment myself, your insight about the financial and emotional toll on family is something that definitely radiates with me. Have a wonderful New Year!!!

    xo, Suzie Q

  11. It’s so awesome to get to travel to so many places with Dani and your loved ones. I’m sorry about your loss, but feel better and Momma T must be so happy and proud of you creating such a great foundation ! Happy New Year to you, my dear:) XO

    Shall We Sasa

  12. It’s a really good way to see the life, sometimes is amazing and sometimes is so hard but you have to know what’s important and appreciate the good things. You had a great year with a lot of travels and success in your work, congratulations and I’m so sorry about your second mom, I’m sure she was an unique person.
    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

  13. I’m so sorry for the lost of Momma T, but I’m glad to read that something really great came from this sad part of your life.

    My high: I got engaged (yeey!)
    My low: I lost my grandpa.